How would you feel if your husband didn’t help you plan your wedding, HIS rehearsal dinner or your honeymoon?
My husband has been telling me not to worry for weeks because he had the honeymoon plans under control and now he’s telling me that nothing is booked an we were suppose to have left for the beach 5 hours ago.
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If you’re not married yet he’s not your husband.
That’s a bich.
Get a new husband?
i would be very mad. but my boyfriend does the same sayd one thing and not do it. now planning a wedding and all that he should have helped that could have been the least. maybe you can hurry and try to find something i mean its october maybe they wont be really busy
Tell him that when he gets it together he can give you a call, and that when he does you’ll be expecting a formal proposal, on his knees, the whole nine. And then smile sweetly.
i would never let my husband plan anything! i may ask for his input but in the end i would decide. if he pulled that, i’d be pissed! and probably never trust him to plan anything!
Who cares? You married him for a reason. You’ll end up going somewhere eventually. Live a little.
That’s not a great way to start off a marriage. It takes two, and if he isn’t going to do his share, then it can’t end well, and if he’s already exhibiting this behavior five hours after… To put it simply; that cannot be good. I would be very irritated, if I were you. Tell him to clean up his act.
I wouldn’t have let it get to that point. Even if he was supposed to do the planning, I’d have been in on the results. You should have been well aware beforehand that nothing was done–marriage, as well as wedding planning, takes lots of communication and teamwork. It’s the only way.
I’d be terribly hurt. I mean the honeymoon is his responsibility. However I’m confused. If he is your husband and you were suppose to leave hours ago, the rehearsal is over and done with. If he didn’t plan the rehearsal dinner (which is on his parents anyway), that’s in the past and you just have to let that go.
However the honeymoon–clearly if he hasn’t done anything, he probably hasn’t taken off work either. You guys will just take one later on. I would be terribly hurt that while I was planning a whole wedding with all the little details, he couldn’t even find a great place to Get It On. I mean the honeymoon is just the relaxing vacation. I’d be concerned. Why? What is he hiding? Could he not afford it? Does he have financial problems he didn’t tell you about? Did he not ask off work? Did you two fight a lot? Seriously it seems like so much else is at stake here.
There is just so little involved. You can even do it last minute. I could get on orbitz and book a hotel for tonight within an hour. I could drive to the beach and walk into Century 21 and ask which places they have for rent. At Myrtle Beach, a big place is Grand Strand Realty. In some other areas it’s named after the nearby ski slope. Either way I could just call the place and find a place for the week within one hour. There is something more going on.
I’d be really really hurt.
if he doesnt want to plan your wedding then dont marry him.
this stuff will only get worse after you do.
I would be pissed as hell. It’s his celebration, too, and he should be pitching in to help.
A wedding is not solely the bride’s thing. It’s the groom’s, too.